The Wedding Day- Now Is The Time To Get Married

The time has come! The bridal couple has come a long way in planning and hardly any wedding preparation goes smoothly. The search for the outfits and the right service providers, the design of the decoration and the invitation cards, acceptances and rejections that like to come at the last moment and perhaps also personal differences of opinion between the future couple are now in the past. It was a unique, exciting time with a lot of anticipation, but also with a lot of stress and excitement. Problems big and small are forgotten on the day of the wedding and now it’s time to enjoy the big day.

Things don’t go well – and yet it’s perfect

Not a single wedding goes exactly according to plan, something just always happens. Guests who cannot come spontaneously, mistaken place cards that cause chaos when looking for a seat, a wrong CD for the song to move in, a guest who drinks something over their thirst or a child who throws the wedding cake or a surprise that completely fails. Maybe the mother of the bride’s best friend has a white dress and maybe you get jumped on by your dog, who has just been in the mud with his paws, maybe the cupcakes for the candy bar are delivered in the wrong color, you stumble when moving in and forget the singer the text.

All of these things can happen, and the big secret is, none of them is a tragedy. The best you can do is simply not to let anything ruin your day and just not to be angry about small mistakes. Every minute of the day is so precious that it is not worth wasting a second on negative feelings.

The bride’s morning

Most couples don’t sleep together the night before the wedding to really enjoy the excitement and excitement. The magical moment when you see your person for the first time for the bond of life is something very romantic and extraordinary. But even if you spend the night together, they part ways in the morning. Here are some tips to help you escape the stress of preparation and re-energize for the big, long day.

Surround yourself with people who are good for you.

It is not uncommon for the people who are closest to us to be very excited. You should think carefully about who has the ability to calm down rather than push and keep this person with you as a haven for the morning. Of course, you can’t completely stop other people from getting excited, but if z. For example, if mom tends to ask organizational questions every three minutes, express worst fears, or just restlessly strolling around the room and bursting into tears, it may not be the best company for the bridal morning.

A hairdresser you like

It is actually a great advantage to get on well with the service providers. If you find your hairdresser sympathetic and nice, the atmosphere is much more pleasant, and the same goes for the make-up artist. Ensures that the hairdresser takes his time and avoids any time pressure for all activities.

Use breaks and enjoy

The morning does not have to be fully planned, small breaks are good. Try to relax consciously during these breaks and release your thoughts as best you can from the day ahead or from worries about what could go wrong. And if necessary – have a little champagne with the maid of honor.

to have breakfest

Many brides barely manage to eat half a bun out of sheer excitement. Our tip: Make sure you have a bite to eat even if you are not hungry, especially if there is a sparkling wine involved. The combination of excitement, champagne and an empty stomach tends to end up feeling drunk, you sweat more and the make-up lasts much worse. On such an exciting day, the bride needs energy, especially if the meal doesn’t take place until the evening.

Much sleep

Of course, it sounds easier than it is: many brides find it difficult to fall asleep, especially the night before the wedding. You lie awake for a long time, go through everything in your head, are worried or are simply incredibly excited and wide awake with sheer joy. Still, go to bed early and calm down, the wedding day will be very long and fly by and to enjoy every moment you have to be rested.

Conclusion: joy, feelings and enjoyment should shape the day

No matter what happens, it will be a wonderful day with an incredible number of emotional memories. It is never worth filling this wonderful feeling and the start of the marriage with expectations, disappointments, bad moods or other negative emotions. In the end, love is the only thing that matters and you cannot repeat this day – so just take what comes and choose the best moments. In the end, it is always happiness and love that prevail when one is not guided by anger. Because nothing is worse than the feeling of having spent your own wedding with negative emotions. And by the way: If you don’t have high expectations, you can’t be disappointed. The expectation of perfection is almost never fulfilled and in the end nobody will remember the little mistakes anyway. Just let the wonderful day come to you, don’t let yourself be stressed and do what you feel like doing, because that’s the only thing that matters.

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